/ˈperəntɪŋ/
If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough. 如果你的孩子总是故意打扰你，那是因为你和他缺乏肢体接触、缺少亲密感。
If your chile is lying, it means you overreacted to the mistakes in past.如果你的孩子撒谎，这说明你曾经对他犯过的错误反应过度。
If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advise them more than you encourage them. 如果你的孩子缺乏自信心，那是因为你给他们的建议多过了鼓励。
If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public(Parents shouldn’t do so even in front of siblings,friends or cousins)如果你的孩子不能坚持自我，那是因为他们小时候你总是在公共场合批评教育他们。（即使是在亲戚、朋友面前，父母也不应该这样做。）
If you buy everything for your chldren still they take things that do not belong to them, it is because you don’t let them choose. 如果你什么东西都给孩子买，可他们还是会去拿别人的东西，那是因为你从不让他们自己选择自己想要的东西。
If you child is a coward, it is because you help them too quickly. Don’t remove every obstacle from their path. 如果你的孩子很懦弱，那是因为你太快就去帮助他们。不要帮你的孩子清扫他们成长道路上的每一个障碍。
If your child gets angry quickly, the reason might be you have not parised them enough.they only get attention misbehaving. 如果你的孩子很容易生气，那是因为你给他们的赞扬不够，他们只有行为不当的时候才能得到注意。
If your child doesn’t respect others feelings, the reason might be you always order them- not giving importance to their feelings. 如果你的孩子不懂得尊重别人的感受，那是因为你总是命令他们，不在意他们的感受。
If your child is secretive, the reason is you blow things very big. 如果你的孩子总是神神秘秘的，什么都不告诉你，那是因为你总是爱打击他们。
If the child behaves rudely, it is learnt from parents or others living with them. 如果你的孩子总是行为粗鲁没有礼貌，那其实是从父母或者一个屋檐下的人那里学来的。